Pembebelan kebosanan

Hm...a very very very quick update I guess hehe....my baby is sleeping now. As you all know...erm..some of u.... he does not sleep during daytime but now he is sleeping soundly. yay! That's a hoorah!

Adief is one tall baby now. Very active and I must say he is a smart boy (anak sendirik...) We haven't done the aqiqah for him but InsyaAllah we are going to do the aqiqah together with qurban for him during this coming Eidul Adha. 2 bahagian for his aqiqah, 1 for his qurban and the rest are for us husband n wife and our late grandmothers.

He now knows how to show directions like "Mommy! Mommy! This way!" "Jom naik" "Lets go out". He likes to pat us on the back whenever we hug him. He has a very good memory. Rasenye sume baby pon gitu. Kalau bawak dia turun kat hall, xleh lupe switch on the fan...aircond kat hall is an optional. 2nd,we must turn on the tv. When it's time to eat, we must bring his Prima Pappa to the hall, and place it under the fan. Prepare his bib and J&J Messy Time Wipes. Xleh lupe2. Kalo x, dia pandanggg jek kite :)).

Ok...pembebelan sejati bermule. Kenape ek....men...some men I mean... mudah sgt kesian dgn perempuan? Senang sgt tewas! Bukan mcm 'tergoda' tue..I mean tewas yg mcm "kesian la dia". Tergoda tue toksah ckpla kan. Kalo ade pompuan yg manje2 sket, lentok2 sket, some men tue mmg kalah la kan and Alhamdulillah so far, my husband and my dad are not like them and I hope they will always be. Men nie tatau nak bezekan org yg patut dikesiankan I think. Yg setakat sikit2 tue la yg dia kesiankan. Sket2..."dia busy tue" "dia byk kejela" "penat tue". Especially maids. And org yg kurang senang. Helloooooooooooooooo. Kenape doctors, auditors, engineers tue org xde lak nak kate "kesian dia..." Kenape maids yg dah mmg keje derang gitu yg men slalu nak kesian? There's no such thing like "derang tue manusia gak". Habis? Kenape when I was auditing my clients and I had to go home late with bertekak2 sket ngan clients or even my manager, xde lak rasenye colleagues (men) or anyone else yg nak kate "kesian dia...dahla x sehat...kene buat mcm2 lak tue. Dia pon manusia gak." Tapi kalau makcik cleaner yg mmg keje dia mencuci tue...."kesian dia..."

And what about polygamy? Kenape bab tue lah nak ikut Nabi? Bende lain taknak lak ikut! Kan? Kan? Say yes lah ladies...hahahha. Support me lah. Kalau nak sgt ikut Nabi...carikla perempuan yg susah2, x berdaya, tua sume. Tapi tak. Carik yg comel2 gak. Alasan? Nakla yg sekurang2nye sedap mata nak pandang. Hey hey hey. That is LUST lah maknenye. Adela terselit gak lust kan? Lainla org yg kene polygamy sbb bende2 yg penting mcm wife sakit ke ape, bolehla consider. Sakit tue, tgk jenis sakitla gak.

Kalau org ckp susah itu ini, mule la kesian. X pk kot org tue tipu sket ke ape. Saje create citer nak bg gempak sket ke ape. Mulela bagi je sume mende yg org mintak. Nak tolong katenye. Habis? Anak bini? Kalau jadi kat diri I, there's no thing like 'asalkan cukup'. NO WAY! Anak bini kenela lebih sket! Dah kalau mampu, kalau boleh nak senang, kenape mesti kite susahkan diri? Hellooo..nie bukan movies or novels yg konon nak adventure2 sket idop tue. Lainla mmg xleh nak idop gaye senang lenang, tue yela x sedar diri.

To men out there.. please dont be toooo kesian or berhati suci murni sgt. Hati suci murni bersih putih ape sume nie, bertempat. Bukan sume mende kite nak kene kesian. Kalau kat sumerang nak kesian, nak jage hati, senangla org tue maknenye. Sume mende kalau ade problem, ade jek penyelesaiannye. Abeh tue kite mcm mane? Kalau kite sebok nak jage ati org je, nak paham org je, nape org tue xde lak nak paham kite? Kan? Kan? And please...I dont wanna hear all those buat baik nanti org balas baik.... nanti org pandang kite nie baik and all that. Org kalo nak buat baik kat kite, x perlu nak tunggu kite buat baik kat dia..Right? Allah je yg tau kite akan dapat sesuatu yg baik ke tak. Hati kenela ikhlas. Kalau one day terungkit jugak...x gune lah! Mungkinla skang kate ikhlas nak tolong org...tapi yakin ke akan sampai bile2 gitu? Kalau tanye I...mende yg I x ikhlas, I wont do! And I dont care ape org nak ckp. Tapi kalau mmg niat nak tolong...You dont need to ask for it. I will definitely help you. Lom sempat nak mintak pon, I dah tolong.

Dont get me wrong here... all above got nothing to do with my family...so far. Mintak2 takkanla..amiin... It just a bebelan di tengahari yg panas ini. No lah! My mom got a text msg from someone ngadu pasal masalah2. Meanwhile I had a conversation with a friend talking about org2 mcm nie. Then I read a blog pon citer hal yg same. So kesimpulannye, lelaki mmg cepat kesian dgn perempuan n manusia jenis yg pk kesusahan dia jek dah semakin byk membiak.